We all have two levels of consciousness:
Conscious part can processed about 40 information in seconds. On the other hand Subconscious part can processed about 20.000 information in one seconds.All the memories, emotions, conclusions are placed in subconscious part.According to every event we have an opinion that comes from our or someone else’s experience,like from our parents.
We can forgive someone an insult, but we can never change our feelings about that event.
As soon as we experience an event, our subconscious automatically try to find similar event in her memory. And with that we experience emotions.If we have a negative experience about that our emotions will be negative. If our experience about some event is positive our emotions about that will be positive.
Our parents are us knowingly or unknowingly shared their experience about some event.They relayed us their views of events, and their experience.All with best intentions.But hey, the road to hell is paved with good intentions.
Because of that, you can often hear that children look like in their parents. That’s why we have so much mediocrities. If you want to advance in life you have to change your forms into your subconscious. You must change your way of thinking.
Here is an example.If our parents taught us that we should work our hole life hard for money. That we should work for the company,for the state every day 5/40/40 (five days in week/40 hours/40 years) we will adopt this was of thinking and he will become a part of our personality.Only this operating mode will seem to us acceptable. And we will only in this kind of work feel confident.
Towards all other kinds of work we will feel revulsion.We will feel uncertainty, and hence negative emotions such as fear.But this is emotion which is not ours. This is the emotion that our parents are instilled in us.
Is it our fate programmed in advanced ? By our parents ? It can be, if you simply let inertia to lead you in “your future”. But do you want that ? This is a real question ?
You have first to change the pattern that is imprinted in your subconscious. If you do not do that, you’ll have a problem,because you will fail to achieve what you want, and the reason for that is in you. You have negative attitude about that, which born in you negative emotions. With negative emotions you can not believe in your self, and if you don’t believe in yourself you will failed.
How to do that ?I’ll explain in the following posts.
But do not remember You Can Do That !
Stay tuned !