Honesty is the most important characteristic of the enlightened people.If you are honest by yourself you will have a great life in any sense.If you are not honest, you will fail to make any changes in your life.
Believe me or not, we all need changes.
I have talked in one of my previous posts, that we are operate in a way that our subconscious, every new experience, automatically compared with previous the lived or implanted experience. And based of that she created emotions. In most cases that emotions are negative, but only with truly enlightened people that emotions are positive or they have no emotions at all.
So, are you hater ? Probably you are. Most of us is. But this is great knowledge, right. Maybe you are not pathological hater who is leaving your negative comments everywhere,but if you have negative emotions according to some, or according to most events, yes you are hater.You don’t need to admit me, you don’t need to admit this fact to anybody expect yourself.
In one town, in one time is lived a guy, ordinary, mediocrity,in no way special.He is worked a bureaucratic job, and dreamed big dreams.He dreamed about a new job, about new car, about new apartment, about new life. But he did not know how to realize his dreams.He was thinking to quit his job,but then he could not survive,he was thinking to open a liquor store,but it was too risky,he was thinking to open a bakery, but it was too stupid idea.He had a dream to be a vocal singer , but how,they are all alcoholics.He was a classic hater.
One day, while he was returning home from a boring job, he saw on one lonely wall a graphite “I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.”Jimmy Dean
He thought,what a stupid quote ! But, somehow he remember it, and by time he thought about that quote often. One day, he is realized that is so true. Of course. His sails are in wrong positions. Because of this reason, he had a negative opinion about anything.It was his eureka moment.
He quit his job, he became a singer, and he have a great life now.
We people, we doing some things by inertia, because we don’t thinking enough about us, about our thoughts and we are allowing to our subconscious to behave in accordance with our pattern from earlier.
If we are not lived the same or similar experience already, we will have a negative feelings toward him, which is nothing more than fear.When you heard that someone is make it, in any area, your brain automatically creates a scenario ,and looks for excuses: he is certainly had someone to help him,he has a powerful family, he have a money, he have something that I don’t have…. This is normal.
We are all humans. The most powerful being on the planet.Admit to yourselves that you are hater and make some positive changes in your life, because You Can Do It !